It is with great sadness that we share with you the passing of long time Out To Swim member George Gardiner.
George was instrumental in helping the club grow to the success it is today. He helped found our artistic swimming team, the first in the UK to host mixed teams, managed our 21st celebrations and kept the website up to date for many years.
As is tradition when one of our members passes all members are invited to celebrate their life by doing a length of their favourite stroke during one of our sessions this week.
Our thoughts and condolences go out to his family and friends.
In Memory of George, we wanted to share a post by his oldest friend Paul:
‘Unfortunately, I have some very sad news. Early on Saturday morning George passed away, finally losing his battle with cancer. He did so in Italy exactly where he wanted to be, doing what he wanted to do and as content as I have seen him for a long while. His death followed a severe brain seizure, but he died in my arms peacefully and knowing he was much loved. George’s lasting wish was to be back in the Italian countryside and on Friday night he enjoyed a wonderful meal in a hilltop village with some of our dearest friends. George’s family and I have agreed his ashes will remain here in Italy under a new tree planted to remember him by. We will be holding a simple cremation service in Italy next week and there will be a memorial service in London a little later in the summer when we can all celebrate the life of our dear friend, this kind, generous and caring man.’
George was an active member of Out To Swim for many years from about 2006 to 2016. He attended many competitions including the Gay Games in Cologne and was one fo the founding members of the OTS Angels Artistic Swimming Team back in the day when it was just 15, middle-aged, hairy men trying to do the underwater splits to Lady Gaga! We will remember well the many practice sessions and laughs in the run up to the Cologne games and the close friendships formed as a result. George’s love of all things electronic lead him to put together our underwater speaker system which has since travelled around the world in its’ little wheelie case and is still in use to this day.
When we did the Channel relay in 2009 our team of twelve had been diligently visiting Dover Harbour for several weeks, shivering in the cold and bemoaning our training regime having to stay in for 60 minutes; George decided he would join us one weekend. After our hour swimming as we sat shivering and wrapped up on the beach, George was nowhere to be found. We became more and more concerned and after two hours were at the point of calling out the lifeguard when to our chagrin, George casually strolled out the water and up the beach announcing what a lovely swim he’d had and he might go back in again except he had a bruise on his head… We think, to this day he is the only person who managed to swim into Dover Harbour wall having ‘failed to see it’ as he was swimming along!
Over the years, as it grew, OTS has had to evolve in great stages to stay current and meet new requirements and legislations. When George joined the club he was quick to get involved and his superb, analytical, lawyer’s brain was a key part in one of these big steps. He helped form the current club constitution and set the framework for its change to charitable status. He was a regular at every club AGM and was well known for his political input ensuring each AGM was never a dull event!
George also used his extensive computer knowledge and time to update the club website and catalogued much of the OTS history which, up till then, had just been somewhat piecemeal. Together with the committee of the day the club was able to progress into the OTS we know and love today.
George spent as much time as he could in Italy in recent years helping Paul develop the house from an old wreck to a beautiful hilltop villa. Many from OTS joined George for his 50th birthday there in 2016. This Wonderful weekend summed up George’s generous nature organising accommodation for everyone and providing an amazing three day party of food, wine and entertainment.
Around Christmas of 2021 when George first found out he was ill he was told he might have six months to live. We all thought this was a bluff and he would be about for a good few years to come. Turns out that diagnosis was pretty accurate. Over the years we have lost good friends at OTS which is only natural in such a large club. Nevertheless, each time, it’s a reminder to appreciate our friends whilst we have the chance. Following a difficult year for us all, let's look forward to reconnecting with friends as life returns to normal and take a moment to reach out to those who perhaps need a little more help than usual.
George, you may be gone but you will not be forgotten and you join the list of fondly remembered OTS alumni high kicking and free styling somewhere in the cosmic infinity pool.